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A Man’s Secrets to Successful Online Dating

December 1, 2009 by admin  
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A Man's Secrets to Successful Online Dating

People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do?  You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.  

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.  

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one. 

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.  

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours  and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you.

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18 Responses to “A Man’s Secrets to Successful Online Dating”
  1. fancy says:

    im totally gunna use that star wars vs star trek line.. lol best line ever

  2. kidney_dude says:

    this was painful to watch

  3. Lenora says:

    Okay, for one, there are a few guideline. But the one thing that is the best is that you shouldn't date. God has a divine plan for all of our lives and He has that one special person that He wants us to save ourselves for. Read Philippians 4:8. It talks about being pure and how to live a good life. The bible also talks about how a man shouldn't touch a woman. Just think about it. Wouldn't you like to get married to someone who has never been with another person? Talk to God and get the answer. And two: that person up there has no right to say that you will go to hell if you date. The only way you go to hell is if you don't have a relationship with Jesus Christ! :D

  4. gadget freak says:

    “the damages” what a fuckin dumb thing to say

  5. gadget freak says:

    A little early on the phone # there. I know I would never ask that early because that seems a little creepy.

  6. GARRICK G says:

    It's a recent book, so it is under copyright protection. Unless the author puts it online somewhere for free, you are probably out of luck.

    Sites that scan copyrighted books and make them available with no payment to the author are inconsiderate to the author, and they're illegal. You would not want that to happen to your book.

    Have you tried your local library?

  7. Only use pickup lines on a girl you're good friends with. Only slutty girls will take you up on an offer if it starts with a perverted conversation. To get the right girls, be a friend. Make yourself look your best. Be a man. Girls want to feel protected and beautiful. Don't tell a girl she's beautiful unless you know her and know how she'll take it. I know some girls who'd be flattered, but others who'd be suspicious. Ask "How was your day?" or other stuff about their life. Make them laugh. We love to laugh! Ask for their number in a subtle way, so if they say no it's okay. As everyone says, be friend first. That way, asking for their number isn't awkward. And make sure you get the number directly from the girl. Don't get it from a friend, because then she'll feel violated. Be careful with asking girls out. Be sweet, but don't be embarassing. If your school has a candy-gram type thing, send her one with a cute message. Give her A flower. Not a bunch, just one. Save the big things for when you're dating. Be careful with girls. We are very complicated. Don't get with someone if you like someone else. They will find out, and they will be pissed! Good luck. There are lots of girls out there, and I can tell you that a lot of them are looking for a boyfriend!

  8. Jim007 says:

    I know how you feel greatly!

  9. rekipo says:

    To be honest I think the design needs a bit more work but the content seems good.

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  12. Anonymous says:

    That Star Wars vs. Star Trek thing was brutal to watch. Here’s an easy rule for 1st dates…treat it as a playful interview. Ask questions and pay attention to her responses. It can help you move into another topic or allow you to laugh with her. If your date is interested, she’ll respond and even ask you questions. Make sure your answers are genuine.

  13. ryu_kwan_boy says:

    There are many books available through amazon.com that are thought of as dating manuals

  14. thedramagal says:

    sorry to say but it doesnt have a number 2.
    But it might.

  15. twilight_101 says:

    um, there is no second book and i don't know if there will be one. but you could search her website to see if she mentions anything.

    http://www.bethfantaskey.com/

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