Dating Tips For Women- Is He Interested In Me Or My Body
December 6, 2009 by admin
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In case you are wondering what he will be checking out, here is a survey of what single men from a nation wide dating tips group responded too?
50 percent of this group said they look at the woman’s face.
33 percent said the butt.
17 percent said breasts.
So, keep in mind before your rush off and have breast implants thinking that single men are going to check them out first. Not true. You might get more attention, not the right kind of attention.
Single men are more impressed with a woman who has confidence than the size or their breasts. A sense of humor helps. Both of those outweigh any other feature about a woman.
Next, let’s talk about intelligence. A classy single man looking for a meaningful relationship does not want a dumb hottie. Guys may hook up with a moron, but they will never bring them home to meet his parents.
Politeness is a big factor when meeting single men. Ladies, the number one turn off to a guy is text messaging your girl friends about where you are or where you are going while on a date. If you do answer your phone, it better be grandma or you have just lost his interest forever. Don’t check your phone for messages, turn it off.
Enthusiasm ranks extremely high on the ladder. If you get excited about something and begin to start talking about it, don’t play it cool and hide your feelings. Go for it. Acting cold will only turn him away. A quote from this national dating tips survey said “if she likes me, she should be confident enough to show it.”
Discreetness. If a guy is interested in talking to you, but you are with a group of other single women, he might not be himself. So, if he shows initial interest and you have interest also, ladies, please…stand up or more the conversation somewhere more private. It’s a subtle little thing, but he will for sure appreciate it.
Show self control. If you have established that he is interested in you, don’t open the flood gates and let it all out. Show some self control. He doesn’t need your full resume at this point.
Lastly, be yourself. Single men who approach you want to do just that. He is trying to get to know you, not some weird version of yourself that only comes out on Tuesday nights. Don’t be adventurous if in fact, your not. be yourself.
Ladies, your assignment this week is to talk to a dozen single men and take notice as to the first place their eyes travel when they first encounter you. Is it your face, your butt, or your breast’s? This will give you an indication if he is interested in you or your body.
You can email me your questions at www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Best, Janis
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With over 16 years of experience as a professional matchmaker working exclusively for the nation’s most successful men, Janis Spindel has a unique insider’s perspective on contemporary dating. Her clients tell her exactly what they want in a relationship, in the process revealing the secrets to the male brain.
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I really thought about helping you out here, just because it would be fun to write. Then I looked at your profile and see that:
1. You answer other people's questions so obviously without care and thought and apparently just for points so you can go ask more questions.
and
2. The people that are gracious enough to assist you or answer your questions most of the time don't even recieve the courtesy of you selecting the "best answer" but they are instead selected by voters.
So instead I decide that if you are not interested in doing the right, then why in the world should anyone be interested in helping you?
Yes definately! A girl wants to know if a guy is interested in her. If you dont even look at her she will then that u arn't. I know its hard (i even have trouble with it) but you need to try and look at a girl that you are interested in. When she looks at you smile at her and then look away. Maybe do it one more time for luck and then she will know! Remember a lot of girls will not make the first move! So you either need ur body language to do it or else you need to approach her. Don't have a serious face! I also have a stern face at work but when you go out forget about work and concentrate on your personal life. Just have fun with it! Buy her a drink, dance behind her and bump into her by mistake (but softly) and then every so often do it again. When she looks at you smile at her! Body language is a big thing. If a girl picks up on the wrong signal she will think that you arnt interested and move on! Good luck hey
#1 . makes perfect sense
#2 . being polite , and early when meeting , ARE nice touches .
#3 . A , in todays world a woman should assume any man she is talking to is gay ( my personal view ) , and , B , she should never wonder , thats why we have intuition . as far as phone #'s go , who says a man even needs one , i get along .
#4 . a what to wear clue is too much , instead , " bring a wardrobe , i got a surprize "
#5 . thats a gimme in all situations , no ??
#6 . thats a thin line we all limp upon , eh ?
#7 . what ? re dick you lus !!!
#8 . sum of US are poor guys , remember ??
#9 . depends , on who , she is , i , suppose .
#10 . good thing number 10 is in , the picture , thank you for the insight . i rub you
Its just more fun to date and then out of the blue stop talking to them entirely.
Who really cares? They are a waste of time anyway.
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So winking at a girl actually works? I always thought of that as being really clique =/
Some really do and some just want to string you along. When anyone says that you can only be friends. If they want more like the one your talking about it sounds like she may be ya know that got to have it now/can only go without for so long kind of person.She should have just been up front with you in the beginning.
I totally agree!!!
I can agree with you on that stand point but see they have to trust themselves and they have to have confidence within themselves to actually start dating or even loving someone.
i agreee!!!
Well, if he's going to be shallow and care that much about your mid-section, then he's not worth your time. But… if this is a relation you wish to continue, I suggest holding off for a bit and tell him you want to take things slower. That way, you'll a. figure out if he'll stick around if sex isn't present, and b. work out a bit more. Honestly, if it was me, I'd say take me as I am, but if you, yourself wish to be more fit, then I say go for it! Good luck hun:)
thanks for the tip. can i bang you from behind and pull out and cum on your ass???