So winking at a girl actually works? I always thought of that as being really clique =/

Speaking as a 42 y/o single woman who's dating again, there's nothing wrong with admitting your age. It's a huge turn on to most men.

Stay away from bars and be choosey on who you date. Nothing's worse than a BAD date after a long week.

Dress to please yourself. Nice deep V-necked tops with skirts are awesome. We finally have breasts that we can be proud of…and that men appreciate.

Be honest with him about the food you like and the places that you enjoy…but also be open to a new idea if he suggests it.

Order soup and an appetizer, then go for a salad or something light for your entree…gives you more time to have a good conversation with him and less to worry about finishing.

Leave all thoughts of previous men at home. No man wants to spend the night listening to how wretched somebody else was…and it just gives the impression that you've got too much baggage and can't move forward.

Make sure your kids know that your phone is only to be used for dire emergencies. I hate having a date sit there and watch me tell the kids to stop fighting and go to bed.

Most of all, have fun and feel good about yourself. Life is so much better after 40 than they tell us!!!

It really is very easy, to meet and date women.

Rule # 1 Talk to them, Rule # 2 Listen to them. Rule # 3 Treat them with respect. Flirt.

O k enough of the rules, everyday you come in contact with women. If not change your patterns of movement. Go where the women are. Volunteer somewhere, join a club, ask married lady friends to introduce you. Look for women, they are everywhere. In all the stores, gas stations, everywhere you go. Flirt.

If you are nervous around women, spend more time around them. You will discover they are just as nervous as you are. The more time you spend around them the more comfortable you will become. Flirt.

Talk to every women, every time you get the chance. Young, old, every one. They all have a story, and they all can teach you something. Sometimes the lesson is RUN !!

Start with the easy stuff, talk about the weather, talk about things that interest you, talk about them, complment them on 1 thing, rings, shoes, car, something safe, and don't dwell on it, move on to something else. Flirt.

Also, look at their eyes, notice what color they are. oh yeah, look for a wedding ring. Always complement a wedding ring. Don't hit on the married ones, even if they give you the signal ( more on that later ).

All of these things you can do with a salesgirl as she rings up your shirt. Smile when you talk to her. Not a big grin just a slight smile. Like everything else in life, Pratice ! Practice ! Pratice !

So many times when I was dating I would be sitting with my guy friends and they would be like, man I wish I had a date. Now we were sitting in a bar with 20 women around, and I'm like go talk to them !

Everyone is afraid of rejection, includuing me, but I got over it. A good way to think of it is like baseball, you have to swing at the ball or you will never hit a home run. I hardly every went home alone, unless I wanted to.

Pratice talking to women, even the ones like the sales girl who you will never see again.

Flirt, always flirt with unattached females, of legal age of coarse. It makes them feel good about themselves and that always made me feel good about me.

Women will always give you a signal when they want you to ask them out. You will learn to see it. Flirt.

If you don't know how to flirt go to the library ( another good place to meet women ) get a book on flirting….get several.

Stay away from the bars if you can. Alcohol will make a idiot out of you or her. First date should be coffee or ice cream only, something quick and simple to get to know each other. Try to find a lady who likes doing the same things you do, movies etc.

Talk about yourself, ask about her, listen and remember.

I dated about 100 women over 4 years, picked # 34 for my wife, and she turned out to be the most wonderful women in the world for me.

Good luck.

David

there are plenty of women out there.. i meet loads off here..