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First Date Guide for Men: How to Have a Successful First Date

December 5, 2009 by admin  
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First Date Guide for Men: How to Have a Successful First Date

Dating someone for the first time could be really intimidating if you keep thinking on how to do it. This could be the start of something special or could lead to heartbreak. Of course you do not want to end up hurt and heartbroken after a first date. Knowing some first date guide will help you prepare on that nerve wrecking first date.

First Date Guide No.1: Do not get nervous. Be positive and avoid negative thoughts. Try your best to relax and enjoy. Have realistic expectations; this is just a first date; you are not going to tie the knot with her on the following day. So do not put too much pressure on yourself, relax and enjoy the moment of dating someone for the first time.

First Date Guide No. 2: Be yourself. Although it is important to make a good first impression because you will never have a second chance to make a first impression, misrepresenting yourself to impress her is not a good idea. It is easier to be honest, to be yourself and show your good qualities. Avoid being too serious or boring, it will make her uncomfortable. Although this girl is special to you, try to talk to her like the way you talk with your friends. Be natural, throw jokes, make her laugh and keep the conversation lively. Remember that there are women who fall for men who can make them laugh.

First Date Guide No.3: Avoid too much basic questions. On your first date, focus on having fun and enjoy the moment with her. Avoid asking too much about the things that people normally put on their resumes’. You are not doing a job interview; this is your first date and just the first stage of getting to know each other. Although you want to know some details about her; wait for some other time to ask her about it. On your first date, talk something you both enjoy like hobbies, sports and other interesting things.

First Date Guide No.4: Good grooming. It is important to appear presentable and attractive every time you go out especially on your first date. Get a proper hair cut, nails should be clean, wear proper clothes, wear perfume to smell fresh and appear attractive. 

First Date Guide No.5: Choose a place for your first date that will allow you to have fun with her. Movies and restaurants could be boring for the first date and do not encourage fun. You could invite her to an amusement park, ice skating, fishing and boating. You do not want your first date to be boring, so avoid boring places.

First Date Guide No.6: Work on your budget. Great and unforgettable first date doesn’t have to be expensive. Of course if you want an expensive first date and you can afford it, there is nothing wrong with it. It is important to work within your budget and not end up bankrupt on the next day. 

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18 Responses to “First Date Guide for Men: How to Have a Successful First Date”
  1. kidney_dude says:

    this was painful to watch

  2. fancy says:

    im totally gunna use that star wars vs star trek line.. lol best line ever

  3. Lenora says:

    Okay, for one, there are a few guideline. But the one thing that is the best is that you shouldn't date. God has a divine plan for all of our lives and He has that one special person that He wants us to save ourselves for. Read Philippians 4:8. It talks about being pure and how to live a good life. The bible also talks about how a man shouldn't touch a woman. Just think about it. Wouldn't you like to get married to someone who has never been with another person? Talk to God and get the answer. And two: that person up there has no right to say that you will go to hell if you date. The only way you go to hell is if you don't have a relationship with Jesus Christ! :D

  4. gadget freak says:

    I know how you feel greatly!

  5. kidney_dude says:

    “the damages” what a fuckin dumb thing to say

  6. Only use pickup lines on a girl you're good friends with. Only slutty girls will take you up on an offer if it starts with a perverted conversation. To get the right girls, be a friend. Make yourself look your best. Be a man. Girls want to feel protected and beautiful. Don't tell a girl she's beautiful unless you know her and know how she'll take it. I know some girls who'd be flattered, but others who'd be suspicious. Ask "How was your day?" or other stuff about their life. Make them laugh. We love to laugh! Ask for their number in a subtle way, so if they say no it's okay. As everyone says, be friend first. That way, asking for their number isn't awkward. And make sure you get the number directly from the girl. Don't get it from a friend, because then she'll feel violated. Be careful with asking girls out. Be sweet, but don't be embarassing. If your school has a candy-gram type thing, send her one with a cute message. Give her A flower. Not a bunch, just one. Save the big things for when you're dating. Be careful with girls. We are very complicated. Don't get with someone if you like someone else. They will find out, and they will be pissed! Good luck. There are lots of girls out there, and I can tell you that a lot of them are looking for a boyfriend!

  7. twilight_101 says:

    um, there is no second book and i don't know if there will be one. but you could search her website to see if she mentions anything.

    http://www.bethfantaskey.com/

  8. kidney_dude says:

    A little early on the phone # there. I know I would never ask that early because that seems a little creepy.

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  10. GARRICK G says:

    It's a recent book, so it is under copyright protection. Unless the author puts it online somewhere for free, you are probably out of luck.

    Sites that scan copyrighted books and make them available with no payment to the author are inconsiderate to the author, and they're illegal. You would not want that to happen to your book.

    Have you tried your local library?

  11. thedramagal says:

    sorry to say but it doesnt have a number 2.
    But it might.

  12. Anonymous says:

    That Star Wars vs. Star Trek thing was brutal to watch. Here’s an easy rule for 1st dates…treat it as a playful interview. Ask questions and pay attention to her responses. It can help you move into another topic or allow you to laugh with her. If your date is interested, she’ll respond and even ask you questions. Make sure your answers are genuine.

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  15. ryu_kwan_boy says:

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