Thursday, February 9, 2012

Getting the Ladies Is Not That Hard, Seriously

February 1, 2010 by admin  
Filed under Dating Tips for Men

right_getting_the_ladiesDating tips for men have been provided for centuries and yet this subject never gets old. Dating women can be extremely easy once you know what you’re doing. However, if you find yourself questioning where to begin, here are some outlined dating tips on what to do and how you can attract women.

Tip 1: Appearance

Yes, appearance does matter. No, good looks are not the same as appearance. You don’t have to be the most handsome guy in the world but that doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t look good! Grooming is the single most important task when dating and it doesn’t take a lot of effort to clean up. If you look like a mess there’s a clue you can’t get a date.

Here are the notable tips to remember: Do not go straight to meet a date after a work out. It doesn’t matter if a woman says the aroma of sweat is a turn-on. Save that sweaty smell once you’ve built a relationship, you’re trying to get your dating groove here. Bathing, smelling good, cleaning the ear wax away, clean nails and trimming away nose hair.

Tip 2: Be Yourself

Men and even women always forget that pretending to be someone else will not work for long. Most dating tips will reinforce expectations that you have to live up to in order to attract and date women. This is not true! If you pretend sooner or later the truth will slip out.

Besides, do you want to start any relationship based on a lie? Wouldn’t you rather find a woman who wants to date you for who you are rather than someone you were pretending to be? Be confident in yourself and know there’s no need to be someone else.

Tip 3: Have a Sense of Humor

The best dating tips for shy guys would be to remain lighthearted and fun. Women love to laugh and men who show they have a good sense of humor become more endearing to a woman. Make her laugh and you’ve won half the battle already.

This is because people that are laughing are thinking of good times and when the date is over, this is what you want her to remember. All the good times will get you another date. You want her to think about how she enjoyed herself. Laughing creates positive vibes and definitely good “mojo”. When the times rolls around for your next date, she’ll remember how fun you are and why she should go out with you.

Tip 4: No Deceit

This is one of the most important dating tips you must follow. Everyone wants to appear grand, bigger than life and special so we tend to exaggerate. This is a bad way to start off dating.

It’s often easier to embellish certain truths to make life more interesting and to make you seem like a dream come true. Lying is not interesting and you definitely once the truth surfaces, it’s hard to be believable. And, the more you lie, the harder it is to remember all those little embellished details. Think ahead; after your 3rd date with the same woman, do you think you will you remember all the lies you’ve told?

Tip 5: Be that Mystery Man

Women are attracted to a little mystery and curious about what they don’t know. Don’t let all your qualities out so quickly. Do not always be available at a woman’s beck and call. You want to project that you’re interested, but also show that you have a life. Women like well rounded men that aren’t obvious. They enjoy diverse men with many interests; loving and likeable but never clingy. You want her returning for more? Leave a bit for the imagination and be mysterious.

Some of the best dating tips and advice are overlooked because you second guess what you think woman are looking for. Dating is easy, we only make it difficult.

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18 Responses to “Getting the Ladies Is Not That Hard, Seriously”
  1. gadget freak says:

    I freaking loved this. very funny

  2. fancy says:

    I saw this movie on tv about last week.
    This part was really funny.
    Glad i found this. Haha. (:

  3. kjokergo11 says:

    You sound like a decent man with alot to offer someone. My suggestion would be is to go to computer dating sites. I can recommend one in particular and that is match.com and another very reliable one is eharmony.com. My girlfriend met a wonderful man on match.com and they now have a serious relationship. How you do it is you sign up and create a profile, with a nice photo, describing yourself in detail. The questions are there for you to answer. Leave out the fact that you are taking care of a disabled parent. Then let it happen. You will get hundreds of inquiries. Then pick the best one suited for you and call and set up a date. A suggestion to you. Don't look too anxious or needy, dress neat, don't talk about being a caregiver to your mother. That can come later into the conversation after a few dates. Just talk about your interests, morals, and take an interest in what the girl has to say. Don't mention sex, or anything that would embarras the girl. Pubs are a hit and miss proposition. You can meet someone nice there, but there are alot of girls that hang out in bars and pubs that are ditzy and airheads. You want a quality person who would appreciate your goodness and kindness and the fact that you are a gentleman. Also don't talk about that you are looking for a very serious relationship and want to get married. If you like the girl, call her again and let the relationship grow slowly. You will probably go on many dates until you meet the right girl for you, but she is out there I assure you. Good Luck to you.

  4. Nikki T says:

    THAT MADE ME LAUGH SO HARD!ESPECIALYY #8 THAT ONE KILLED ME!

  5. fancy says:

    those nerve endings certainly have a use, thats why theyre there. but why should they be there for sexual stimulation? although im open minded about anal sex, we’re not talking about a reproductive organ, it has other jobs to do.
    so i find the idea of nerve endings being there to be sexually stimulated, especially in men, very strange.

  6. gadget freak says:

    I hate when str8 men overact gay parts in films….no matter what, they cannot put a gay character in a film unless its ” visually” gay

  7. kidney_dude says:

    better be careful with that ass thing, for me for example it would be a complete turn off…well, no not exactly turn anything, i just would never let her do that

  8. kidney_dude says:

    now thats the way it is

  9. andy says:

    It is depending on the person, not the race.

  10. thirdeye67 says:

    Do you really think anyone is going to read all that? Get a life.

  11. Gamboooool says:

    Other than the initial meeting, I promise you that you will be judged and respected by your actions. Any makeover should be focused on your communications skills. How tall do you think Tom Crews is? You may have to project your age instead of worrying about changing your appearance. In ten years you will be very proud to look younger.

  12. Alex says:

    What, you must be from america for that to be on the front page. I wouldn't expect any of that, infact if a guy showed all those 9 signs, i would be scared and think he was trying to kill me. That would be so incredibly boring aswell, but i have met some guys that are like that….

  13. gadget freak says:

    lmfao thats hilarious

  14. Anonymous says:

    oh shit I need that guy to give pro tips like that to my gf

  15. andy says:

    well as an italian girl, no, some can be the jealous type, but there wont be any problems culurally, his parents may want him to be with an italian girl but they wont treat u bad, they will also be very generous, they like to cook for u and like to offer u things. there sweet guys. dont worry, there not heart breakers. there emotional.

  16. Na says:

    Na, it's me: Jax's Mommy! Give me best answer, okay?

    And what's with this gold digging stuff? You just stick to sex overseas and you will be okay!

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