SOME Women should Know!
October 21, 2009 by admin
Filed under Dating Tips for Women
I so often hear women saying ‘What do men really want?’ For so many years you may have tried everything to get it right, to please the man your dating in the hope he’ll fall in love with you and want to commit to you for good.
Has that worked so far?
Have your constant efforts to please him by buying him gifts, cooking for him, wearing the clothes you think he’ll love or whatever else you try to do, have they had the desired effect?
Well, my guess is that if you’re reading this they haven’t so I want to offer up some of my best dating tips in the hope that you can avoid some of the mistakes I used to make (unconsciously) that would have men pulling away as soon as things started to get serious.
Dating Tip No. 1
- Show him you’re a woman who values herself. Men are looking for someone of integrity, a woman they can trust and have faith in. If you know the next man you meet is unavailable, don’t go there. Show him your standards are higher than that. Many women are not trustworthy and will cheat on their partners in the same way as men do, but ultimately this is not what a man or you are looking for in a long term partner so at every stage of getting to know each other, show him you’re a woman worth getting to know.
Dating Tip No. 2
- Yep, we all know men are visual and they like a woman who takes care of herself so take every effort to go out there looking and feeing your best as this will show him you take pride in the way you look and value yourself. Remember though, most men are not looking for a catwalk model, simply someone they can be proud to have on their arm and introduce to their friends.
Dating Tip No. 3
- Men love a woman who is caring and has the qualities of a great mother or homemaker. This may sound old fashioned but it’s there instinctively in most men. They want to love and be loved by a woman who’s warm and affectionate, someone who is willing to share her life and make a home together so forget the cold hard ‘I can take care of myself and don’t need a man in my life’ lines. Embrace your femininity and softer side but NEVER fall into ‘mothering’ mode, this is a sure fire turn off to any guy.
Dating Tip No. 4
- Never criticize your man. He’ll get enough competition and criticism at work and he’s looking for support and love from his woman. It doesn’t mean you can’t challenge him, in fact I’d actively encourage a good healthy challenge to keep things alive, but remember a man wants to please his woman above all else and any words of criticism will have the effect of pushing him away, If you want a man to do more of something for you, encourage him with your appreciation of all the great things he does for you.
Dating Tip No. 5
- Don’t rush ahead in a relationship. All too often as women we’re running down the aisle before we’ve even had the 3rd date so relax and go with the pace he sets. Let the man lead and come to you in his own good time. The right one will know you’re there so be centered in who you are take each day at a time, after all if you’re going to spend the next 50 years with this guy, rushing the first few weeks makes no sense at all.
You may agree or disagree with some of these points but what is true is that men are increasingly struggling to find their place in the world and especially when it comes to women.
Many women can give off a huge amount of mixed messages. For example; we want our man to be strong and masculine but soft and caring. We love the power of a great job and money but we want him to value home time over work.
Whether they are the primary bread winner or not they do need the respect of their woman and to know they’re pleasing her. Just like you, he wants to have fun and to find someone to share his life with in a secure and loving way, so don’t be afraid to open your heart, there are no guarantees after all.
To learn more about what men really want in a woman get your copy of my book ‘The Secrets to Attracting and Keeping an Amazing Man’ right here
http://www.havefunfindingtheone.co.uk/salesSecretsToFinding.php
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To learn more about what men really want in a woman get your copy of my book ‘The Secrets to Attracting and Keeping an Amazing Man’ right here
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seems like some good advice at times, but, that one musta been staged, c’mon.
The dude’S in like a $4 tee shirt, messy beard w/a rubix cube? Eh.
Maybe I’m wrong, but, shady there.
cool stuff
i just loled so hard near the end…….
For the same reason small children believe that all the cookies in the world belong to them.
Immaturity, a lack of empathy, an overinflated ego and a passive/aggressive relationship with Mommy.
Well – I think if you are actually going to marry someone there shouldn't be much to ask…. Shouldn't you know it all by then?
I guess if no proposal had been made, and marriage wasn't in the picture yet. I would want to know what kind of values and morals my partner would want to instill in their child. I would want to know how they expected to be living in 5 – 20 years, ideally. I would want to know what kind of vehicle or house they would want to have – not just because it's nice to know, but because it will give me an idea of what sort of lifestyle they find appealing and if we have similar goals. I would want to know if they would be willing to see a therapist, individually and together. There is always room for improvement and I want to know if my partner is willing to accept that they are not perfect and seek assistance if necessary. Not to mention that it would show their ability to admit defeat and rebuild. Relationships take work and I want to know that my partner would be willing to work with me. I would want to know if they would be willing to move… far away from their family. I may not always want to live here, and work sometimes requires you to not stay in one place – I would want to know if I was looking at staying here forever or if I could have farther aspirations.
I don't know… I guess there are a lot of things you could ask. TONS! lol
this guy is an actor right? he’s hillarious!!! and the hair pulling, lmfao
Good question Cookie. Perhaps it's not question of "should" there be women F1 drivers. If a woman grows through the ranks and proves she has got what it takes to do the job, I'm sure there'd be an opportunity for her at the top of the sport.
Some sports are more mentally and physically suited to a particular gender and it would seem that traditionally, motor-racing is a sport that men have the stronger leanings towards.
It could of course be a gender raising issue as well, as it is usually the Dad who wants to coach and encourage the son to go for it. Although, I recall reading that Alonso's father tried very hard to get his daughter into karting but she just was not interested so the kart was passed down to the younger brother Alonso – and wallah!
Perfect sense, you did not show interest because you were insecure. She probably showed interest in you first, and then you felt comfortable and told her how you felt… all textbook really.
Not at all.
Not everything’s in some _____ for Idiots book; most of it’s common sense.
About the only ones that I can think of is "strip club dancer for females," "male nude art model," and "men's underwear model," where being male is a requirement.
I wouldn't really call any of these a "profession."
I have a 500lb female co-worker and she is exactly what you described above. Fortunatly she has no kids because she cant get a man. I'm worried though cuz she sits next to my skinny friend. She might eat him.
no one’s saying you can’t open up, it depends on the context of the situation
Everyone should live alone and be self supportive at some point. It establishes a sense of autonomy. Knowing you and you alone can do everything for yourself, by yourself, is a key to happiness and independence.
If a person has always had some of their needs met by others they will think they need other people and become dependent out of fear.
When I lived alone for the first time it was enlightening, I was a bit surprised at the mess I could make all on my own. I also learned how to be self sufficient. If a person does not have a sense of self sufficiency, they will seek others to support them out of fear.
Long ago I was Boy Scout, I did a merit badge called "Wilderness Survival". Basically, drop you in the woods far away from anything with a knife, come back a week later to see if you survived.
Everyone should do something like this, it could trim the heard and better yet show people they can live without their ipod, blackberry and cable TV.
EDIT: I also think it is good thing for a person to be poor at some point, making the decision between eating and rent is difficult, but anyone who has had to make decision like this gains a new perspective on what a need really is, as opposed to a want.
Wants are infinite needs are minimal.
Best….guy…ever.
Funniest show. God damn, felt for you when Angela says she is married with kids though, bit of a buzzkill.
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wow…his good…and he even resembles mystery…..performs a trick….while in the middle of the trick he stacks forward into another thread…. he must have done his rubik’s routine so often in front of ppl….that he presented it so well..
Just tell her to relax! This is one of the most important things she can do for her health. Remind her of that. There is nothing to be afraid of once she is done she'll say "oh that wasn't bad", so just be supportive.
there is no problem with women in the military. i am in the army and some of the most professional and hardest working people are women. however there is a big ratio of men to women. i am in a fob and i think it is like 20 to 1. you will be fine. if you decide to joing the army let me know and i will help you seperate the bs from actuality. my email is danlliot2001@yahoo.com