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Women's magazines. Believe it or not, an excellent place to find dating advice for men is going to be in the women's magazines. Women consider some of these magazines to be like their bible. If you want to know what makes a woman tick, or their thoughts on men, then this is the place to go.
Check magazines like Cosmopolitan and other similar types of print media to get an idea of what women want. Make sure you read the areas where you hear from real, everyday women describing their fantasies. You might think it is useless and a waste of time, but this will allow you to know what some women want straight from their own two lips.

Dating articles. Most websites that offer dating services have dating articles. At least a few of these articles should contain dating tips. A good idea is going to be to do your homework. Go through these articles and write down the tips that you feel will be most beneficial to you and your situation.
Not all dating tips are going to help all men. It would be too easy if this were true. You would just have to pick a woman and you would instantly be able to wow her into wanting you. However, with a little work and the right tips, your dance card will be full.

I have some links to flirting/dating websites; they offer some pretty good tips:
http://www.ehow.com/how_15903_flirt.html

http://www.mahalo.com/How_to_Flirt

http://www.wikihow.com/Flirt

If he's from the east or has been in the west for a short time, you may need to learn more about the Chinese traditions, not just for the date but for getting along with him.

Suppose he's of the traditional kind of Chinese:

He may wish to pay for the dinner. Most Chinese men pay for all the overheads of dining out unless the couple has a plan to save money for a wedding in which case, they may share the bill.

The topic of discussion can be about things or experience you already share when you first met e.g. something about work, church, friends who introduced you to each other…these are starting points from where you can develop into interesting topics like hobbies, travel stories, cuisines……..

As for the kiss, it's difficult to say. If you two desire each other very very much, a kiss on the first date seems natural. But if you two are just interested in each other, a light kiss (just lips, no tongue) may be appropriate. If you are fine with kisses, you can just let him take the lead.

A smart move is to make it just before saying good night. Try rubbing his lapels as if trying to dust something off……..he should be able to pick up the hints (that you are fine with a kiss), if not……..

Try pulling his lapels lightly as if trying to fix his suit……he should be able to pick up the hints, if not……..

Try running your index finger along his chest top-down he should be able to pick up the hints, if not……..

Try two fingers, three, four………..if he doesn't get the clue, then forget about him.

I don't think there are rules, just cultural sensitivities. Wishing you a nice and romantic date.