Comments on: Women Dating Tips – Dating After Divorce

By: Blue_Falcon

Blue_Falcon — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 18:18:37 +0000

take it slow, I have dated divorced women with kids a lot in the past. you will have to realize that if they are a good parent, you are not going to be her first priority, it will be to her kids. try to plan dates and outings with her children, that way you include the kids, and they don't feel left out of the picture. don't try to be their dad, just be their friend. I am not saying let them run over you, but don't come in and think that your word is law. to them you are the new guy, and you are going to have to earn their trust and respect. it is hard dating a woman with kids, because she will not have a lot of free time just for herself or you. being a parent is a full time job, and never ends. don't try to win the kids affection, and it helps if you are somewhat a kid at heart, that way you don't feel so silly playing G I Joe or dress up Barbie. show interest in the kids, if your girlfriend is comfortable letting you do things with them, take them to the zoo or the movies just you and the kids, get to know them, children are just little versions of us and they will treat you the same way you treat them. good luck

By: kidney_dude

kidney_dude — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 11:55:57 +0000

I totally agree!!!

By: AT

AT — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 10:40:04 +0000

It really depends on the woman. I just turned 30 and I actually prefer older men. So it really is a personal preference like everything else. I have met a lot of people through meetup groups. Most major cities have them and it is no pressure. Also signing up for classes–cooking, art appreciation…etc is a nice way to meet people who may have a similar interest as you. Good Luck!

By: Neil V

Neil V — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 08:43:46 +0000

Treat her like a queen, pamper her, act mature.

By: AJ

AJ — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 03:17:09 +0000

I agree that you should take it slow.

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Good Luck

By: kidney_dude

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By: gadget freak

gadget freak — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 12:00:02 +0000

Who really cares? They are a waste of time anyway.

By: bebedejuin

bebedejuin — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 23:01:44 +0000

You don't say how long he has been divorced, or anything about how hard he took the divorce. Those are two big issues. Some people who have been cheated on will take two years to heal the wounds. By that time he may decide that he is looking for something else in a relationship.

You may have to face the possibility of being his rebound relationship. You know – the one that helps him get over the ex only to realize that he has changed and is now looking for another type of woman. Be very careful with him. Keep showing him that you are worthy of his trust.

By: Froggy McFrogfeet

Froggy McFrogfeet — Thu, 26 Nov 2009 15:49:23 +0000

well who's divorcing who? is she divorcing him then yes he might get all crazy and go after you but if its the other way then no.